Thursday, January 24, 2008

Welcome to XSwingers

We are the premiere private swingers party and adult social club.
We host parties and events for our members in the hottest and best locations....
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PARTIES!
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WEEKENDS: Swingers Party
** Adult Party - Private Party
=> For info/booking, check the links to for our Parties Now
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You NEED AN INVITATION TO ATTEND OUR PARTIES.
Joining our group mailing list is FREE!!!
=> For info, check the links to for our Member
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A getaway for sexually explicit couples and individuals.
Are you going somewhere and you are a sexually experimental couples/individuals? Then plan an erotic swinger travel with XSwingers Travel.
=> For info, check the links to for our XSwingers Travel
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MEMBERSHIP
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Memberships are always available; you will need to answers the Membership Questionnaires. Thus, our club membership is open to all people over 21, couples and singles, who reside in, or who live close enough to travel to the area to attend our parties and events.
=> For info, check the links to for our Member
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IMPORTANT ANNOUNCEMENTS!
Please check you bulk/spam mail folders. Many of our invitations end up there! If you do not check, you may not get them. Once you do, make sure you change the settings on your email account so that our messages from XSwingers@gmail.com will not be identified as spam in the future.
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EMP- ADVANCE PAYMENTS!
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All parties and event fees are paid in advance.
No payment at the Door!!!
To make payments for the event,
simply contact us for easy mode of payment (EMP)
=> For info, check the links to for our EMP Advance Payments
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TALENT
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Sexy Dancers, Fetish and Performance Artists wanted:
Your looks, talent, and/or erotic artistry might be your ticket to party with us for free!
=> For info, check the links to for our Talent
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Single ladies attend our parties for FREE!
We love our single female members at XSwingers! That's why we want you to come and party with us for Free!
=> For info, check the links to for our Party For Free
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WHO MAY PARTY WITH US?
In keeping with our philosophy, we allow couples, single females, and respectful single gentleman to join our private swingers club. Some of our parties will be open to all our members, and some will be restricted to couples and female members only.
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XSwingers FAQ

Who may attend your parties?
Any registered persons over 21 may receive our invitations and information. Just sign-up, maintain a valid email address, and you will receive our invitations. To attend our private parties and events, however, you will need to answers the Membership Questionnaires and purchase an annual membership. This can be done at the time you attend your first party or event.

Where are your parties held?
Our parties are held at established clubs, not small private locations, such as residences or motels, as is the case with some other swinger groups. Our parties are massive events, not intimate gatherings. Our invitations will specify what club or location will host that particular event.

When are your parties held?
We will hold at least one party a month, sometimes more. In almost all cases they will be held on a Friday or Saturday night.

How much do the parties cost?
The nightly user fees charged at the door will vary according to the venue or event, as well as the night of the week. All details will be outlined in your individual invitations. As a member of XSwingers, however, you will receive admission at a substantial discount when we meet at certain established private club locations. During our special events, your club membership will save you money at the door of some top swinging venues!

How do I pre-pay for events?
Just go to the EMP Advance Payments page, scroll all the way down. You can also send email to XSwingersbook@gmail.com

Are single guys allowed at the parties?
Yes and no. Some events will allow single men, some will not. This gives our members who prefer only to party with couples the ability to do so, and our single male members a chance to join in the fun on other occasions. Of course, single ladies are special--and always welcome

What are the rules for the parties?
We have written some common sense, and generally accepted rules for swinger etiquette. We suggest you take the time to read them, especially if you are a single male or a couple new to the lifestyle. These rules will be enforced at all our parties, as well as any additional rules predicated by house management. If you do not like these rules, please do not come to our parties! Violators will be removed from our happy group!

How do I get my invitations?
Just maintain a valid email address with our group. If you change your email without notifying us--you won't get your invitation, will you? Make sure to check you bulk mail to ensure that our invite is not lost.

What if I want to bring some friends?
We encourage you to invite your friends to our events--any people whom you feel are open-minded, respectful, and not offended by sexuality! Each friend must become a member to attend events, however, just as you did. Some events, held at certain locations, require advance registration. No exceptions will be made for this policy at the door, so make sure they sign-up first!

I/We are relatively new to swinging. Will we fit in?
Absolutely! Many of our members are seasoned swingers. Many are not. It is perfectly fine to attend our parties for the dancing, music, food and beverage, and flirtatious fun that are always there. You do not have to have sex with anyone to fit in with our crowd! If you do want sex, however, we are certain that some of our other members will accommodate you.

Is sexual activity allowed at your parties?
Does a kitty purrrrrrr? Because our parties are private club affairs, nudity and sexual activities often occur between consenting members. If you are new to the scene, expect to see lots of sexual play (and be sure to read our rules). Remember, however, that sexual play is ALLOWED. IT IS NOT EXPECTED OR REQUIRED. Swinging is about freedom and choice. The freedom to express yourself sexually or the choice not to do so!

Is sexual activity expected from us?
See above...think we covered that pretty well. It is an important concern for many new members, however, so worth re-stating: Nope!

I/We are not supermodels. Will we fit in?
You may not fit in those size 2 pants, but you will still fit in with us! You will see many stunning and beautiful people at our parties. You will also see the same average-looking folks you see at the super market. Attitude, personality, and charm will make you more friends--and get you laid more often--than just a good body; although good bodies are a good thing too!

What ages will I find at your parties?
More so than any other type of party, swinger parties attract a wide cross-section of age groups, roughly everyone from 21-60. Most couples are likely to be in their 30's or 40's. Some will be younger, some older. Since you will be partying with a lot of other people, finding others in your age group should be no problem.

I am a single guy. Will your parties guarantee that I get laid?
Absolutely not! Our parties will offer you that POSSIBILITY, not which guarantee. If you want guaranteed sex, go to the ATM, take out $300, and call an escort! The female members (attached or single) at our parties are not whores. They are sexy and flirtatious ladies who play (or not) when and with whom they choose. Again, we strongly suggest you read the rules and etiquette section in its entirety!

What should I/We wear to your parties?
Dress to impress, and impress sexy! Men should wear business casual attire, or hip clubbing shirts with nice slacks. Do not show-up in ragged jeans, a white T-shirt, or sneakers. We won’t let you in! Ladies, here is your chance to wear the sexiest items in your wardrobe! Because we party in licensed swinger locations, feel free to be as bare as you dare. If it will get you arrested on the streets, then it will be a hit on our dance floors! In many cases, after a few hot music sets, and a few stiff drinks, those skimpy clothes will be coming off anyway!

Is alcohol served at your parties?
It depends on the venue. Some parties will be BYOB. Some will not serve any alcohol. Again, your invitations will provide all details.

What about food?
All our current locations serve some food, from appetizers to full buffets. Your invitations will once again provide more detail. Come hungry for food, fun, and fornication! XSwingers parties will satiate them all!

What is the meaning of life?
We have no frickin' clue! We do know, however, that life is more fun if our swinging parties are a part of it. Get the message?

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XSwingers Rule

Before attending one of our parties or events, please take the time to read these rules and points of swingers etiquette:

* NUDITY AND SEXUAL ACTIVITY: Since our parties are private and held at established swingers clubs, nudity and most forms of sexual activity are allowed. If you are offended by such things...Do not attend our parties! While most forms of sexual activity are allowed, there are of course some limitations, i.e. No kiddies, No animals, and No violence! If there are other limitations to the sexual expression of members allowed at any given party, such information will be included in the invitations.

* NO MEANS NO! : If you approach anyone at our parties who declines your advances, do not ask again, do not pressure, do not attempt to coerce! Any such behavior will result in termination of your membership, and expulsion from our function! No refunds. No excuses. No negotiation! Every member has the right to decline interaction with anyone else, no questions asked.

* TOUCHING AND PHYSICAL ADVANCES: It is disrespectful to touch anyone without that person's expressed permission. Ask before you touch. Use common sense and be respectful. Violators of this rule will be removed from the premises immediately.

* AGE AND IDENTIFICATION: Don't waste your time signing-up for membership if you are under 21. You will need a valid official ID to gain access to our parties. If you show up without it, you will be turned away.

* DRUGS AND WEAPONS: Zero tolerance for any weapons or illegal substances at our parties. If you attempt to bring them, you will be denied access or expelled. No exceptions.

* SEX AND MONEY: It is illegal to offer or receive any form of compensation for sexual favors of any kind. Don't even joke or pretend regarding this subject. If you do, you will be removed from the event.

* CAMERAS AND CELLPHONES: To protect our members' privacy, cameras are never allowed. Because so many cell phones these days are also cameras, most clubs prohibit or restrict their use within the facility. Leave your phones in the car. Most events will allow you to go in and out to your car if you need to make a call.

* REFUND POLICY: Once you are admitted to a party, there are no refunds if you decide it's not your thing. If you are removed for any reason, see the previous sentence.

* SAFE SEX: Some clubs do provide condoms. It's always a good idea to bring your own as well. Safe sex is a personal choice and responsibility. We take no responsibility for the safety and health of any persons who engage in sexual activities with others. Play at your own risk. Obviously, this is a subject that should be addressed with any potential sexual partners prior to the sexual activity.

* RESPECT OTHERS: Your Mama taught you The Golden Rule. Use it. Everyone at our events is an adult individual worthy of respect--a lady or a gentleman. Any member who is aggressive, abusive, or disrespectful to others will be removed.

* NO DRAMA: Everyone has tension, pressure and drama in their everyday lives. Leave that crap at the door! Couples or singles who can't get along, or who disrupt our festive atmosphere are not welcome. This is a party. We will make sure it is fun!

SPECIAL ADVICE FOR COUPLES:

* COMMUNICATE IN ADVANCE! : This is critical to all couples in the lifestyle, especially our newer folks. Discuss scenarios with your spouse PRIOR TO our parties! Decide and agree upon your personal limitations. If there are certain sexual activities in which you do not wish to see your partner engage, don't wait until his penis is in someone elses mouth! Discuss it ahead of time, come to a consensus, and you will avoid uncomfortable moments and unwanted drama!

SPECIAL ADVICE FOR SINGLE MALES:

* HOW TO SUCCEED AT OUR PARTIES! : We are one of the few lifestyle groups that does allow single males to participate in many, but not all, of our events. We have discovered that the vast majority of you guys is respectful, considerate, and is able to participate smoothly, adding another dimension of fun and enjoyment for many of our couples and single ladies. You must remember, however, that you have a special responsibility to be on your best behavior at all times. Couples are the backbone of the swinging lifestyle. There are relatively few single ladies in the lifestyle, so without all our sexy couples, there would be way too few women! We value and treasure our ladies, whether part of a couple, or single. Treat them in that high regard, and you will fit-in with our crowd.

* HOW TO APPROACH COUPLES: Always respect and acknowlege the fact that they are a couple! Never start hitting on a lady while ignoring her husband. How would you feel if the roles were reversed? Approach BOTH of them. Talk with BOTH of them. Gain the respect and confidence of the two of them, and you just might have a wonderful experience. Piss off either of them, and you have no chance!

* DRESS FOR SUCCESS: Always go the extra mile to set yourself apart. Your clothes, hygiene, friendliness, personality, respectfulness, and attitude should be exceptional. These attributes are far more important than your good looks or the size of your cock! If you disagree with this, we don't want you at our parties. Our ladies appreciate gentleman...and we demand it.

SPECIAL ADVICE FOR OBSERVING BDSM SCENES:

Some, not all, of our parties are in venues that include facilities and equipment for BDSM (dungeon) play. While there is a complex and detailed protocol for those deeply involved in such play, all you need to know as an observer is two things: 1) Don't touch without permission (this universal rule always applies!) and 2) Save your questions and comments for the participants until after the scene (play) is complete, so as to not interrupt the scene. It is totally OK to watch and observe. Just don't crowd the participants (keep a respectful distance) and try not to interrupt them when they are "busy". When the scene is completed, the Dominant partner will usually be happy to answer questions, and may even invite you to participate if you have an interest!

Whew! That's a lot of frickin' rules! Perhaps, but important ones. Because we make great efforts to educate our members in proper lifestyle etiquette, we have very few issues. Therefore, our parties are the sexiest, the most fun, and the safest in town! If you have any other questions regarding such issues, feel free to email us. We will return your email promptly....because we are polite ;-)

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Ladies! Party For Free

Single ladies attend our parties for FREE!

We love our single female members at XSwingers! That's why we want you to come and party with us for Free! With a few occasional exceptions, you will be able to attend our parties and events with no door fees whatsoever. Come on sexy female members...the party's on us! We have lots of sexy couples and guys who would just love to meet you!

Remember ladies, even though our single female members are admitted with no door fees to most of our private events, you still must maintain a club membership (see "Member" page).

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Talent Wanted

Sexy Dancers, Fetish and Performance Artists wanted:

We are always looking for sexy, outrageous, creative people to add fun and atmosphere to our fetish theme parties. If you think this is you, let us know. Your looks, talent, and/or erotic artistry might be your ticket to party with us for free!

As with single female members, however, you must also maintain a valid club membership!

Email us and stated your talent (what you can do)
Subject Title: Talent Wanted
Email: xswingers@gmail.com

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EMP Advance Payments

All parties and event fees are paid in advance.
No payment at the Door!!!
To make payments, simply contact us for easy mode of payment (EMP)

Email us with the ….
Amount:
Party Date:
Subject Title: Party book/EMP Advance Payments
Email: xswingersbook@gmail.com

** After we receive the above information, then we will forward you with our Bank Details for Bank in Transaction.


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XSwingers Travel

The swinger lifestyle has caught the fantasy of several couples and individuals. However, the society doesn't approve of the lifestyle that provides sexual liberties to the couples and/or individuals.

You have a hidden attraction towards similar sex but you can't realize your sexual fantasies due to social obligations. Dream to experience swinger lifestyle but you can't find like-minded individuals/couples who can support your views and feel the urge to enjoy pleasures of couple/individual swapping and exhibitionism. Hence, XSwingers Travel gives you the opportunity to realize your sexual fantasies after the mutual consent of other individuals.

Moreover, a swinger travel is not only about sex. You can also indulge into exciting activities like scuba-diving, water sports, shopping etc. Just imagine spending some dare to bare moments on the deck or enjoy an erotic body massage with your swinging partner. Moreover, most of the swinger travel concept. Hence, there won't be any luggage problems, since your luggage will contain few clothes and the necessary travel documents.

What are you waiting for? Plan your next swinger travel today and email your swinger travel plan (where and when) include your details

Email the above information to XSwingers
Subject Title: XS Travel
Email: xswingersbook@gmail.com

XSwingers with provide liberal place and connect you with other swingers. Hence, you can also pamper your body and enjoy the sexual activities in a highly comfortable environment.

XSwingers Member

No charge to join our mailing list and receive invitations and other information.

Click the link below to join group mailing list for FREE
XSwingers Group Mail

To attend our private social events, you will need to answers the Membership Questionnaires.

YOU MUST BE 21 TO ATTEND OUR PARTIES!

How do I join Xswingers and maintain a full membership
Simply email: xswingersbook@gmail.com with below information:
Name:
Age:
Gender:
Status:
Race:
Nationality:
Occupation:
Resident Country:
Email:
Contact Number:
(we shall call U to verify)

*Singles Y/N
*Couple Y/N; if yes, gives partner details as above and state the relationship.

Email the above information to XSwingers
Subject Title: I am interested in...
Email: xswingersbook@gmail.com

Receiving party invitations and more information
* = Required Field

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XSwingers Party/Nite Out

Fellow Swingers

You Are Cordially Invited to…

Every Weekend: Swingers Party
Where and When: ( see menber IV )

[] Adult Party
[] Open To All Races
[] Open Minded and Professional People.
[] Couples/ Singles Ladies and Men
[] Above 21 to 65 years old
[] Limited Swingers
[] Rules Apply.


You NEED AN INVITATION TO ATTEND OUR PARTIES.
For more info about Invitations:
check the links to our Member for more info.

Parties are for Members only
To attend our private social events, you will need to answers the Membership Questionnaires.
For info/booking, check the links to for our Member

EasyMP- ADVANCE PAYMENTS!
No Payment at the door!!! All parties fees are paid in advance.
To make payments for the party, click EMP Advance Payment

**Parties are Limited
Basis on first come first serve. For Reservation/Booking
Email: XSwingersBook@gmail.com

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Xswingers Group
Email: xswingers@gmail.com

About XSwingers

XSwingers is a private social club, formed to promote the swinging lifestyle in the hottest, safest, most fun venues.

Our criteria for membership are simple:
[1] You must be above 21.
[2] You must be open-minded and respectful.
[3] You must become a member by completing our application, purchasing a membership, and accepting our waiver, rules of conduct, and club by-laws prior to your first event.

Does this sound like you?

If so, you are our kind of swinger. And XSwingers is for you!

By opening our membership to a larger, more diverse cross-section of the swinging community, as well as substantial savings to our members vs. what swing clubs charge non-members!

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