XSwingers Rule

Before attending one of our parties or events, please take the time to read these rules and points of swingers etiquette:

* NUDITY AND SEXUAL ACTIVITY: Since our parties are private and held at established swingers clubs, nudity and most forms of sexual activity are allowed. If you are offended by such things...Do not attend our parties! While most forms of sexual activity are allowed, there are of course some limitations, i.e. No kiddies, No animals, and No violence! If there are other limitations to the sexual expression of members allowed at any given party, such information will be included in the invitations.

* NO MEANS NO! : If you approach anyone at our parties who declines your advances, do not ask again, do not pressure, do not attempt to coerce! Any such behavior will result in termination of your membership, and expulsion from our function! No refunds. No excuses. No negotiation! Every member has the right to decline interaction with anyone else, no questions asked.

* TOUCHING AND PHYSICAL ADVANCES: It is disrespectful to touch anyone without that person's expressed permission. Ask before you touch. Use common sense and be respectful. Violators of this rule will be removed from the premises immediately.

* AGE AND IDENTIFICATION: Don't waste your time signing-up for membership if you are under 21. You will need a valid official ID to gain access to our parties. If you show up without it, you will be turned away.

* DRUGS AND WEAPONS: Zero tolerance for any weapons or illegal substances at our parties. If you attempt to bring them, you will be denied access or expelled. No exceptions.

* SEX AND MONEY: It is illegal to offer or receive any form of compensation for sexual favors of any kind. Don't even joke or pretend regarding this subject. If you do, you will be removed from the event.

* CAMERAS AND CELLPHONES: To protect our members' privacy, cameras are never allowed. Because so many cell phones these days are also cameras, most clubs prohibit or restrict their use within the facility. Leave your phones in the car. Most events will allow you to go in and out to your car if you need to make a call.

* REFUND POLICY: Once you are admitted to a party, there are no refunds if you decide it's not your thing. If you are removed for any reason, see the previous sentence.

* SAFE SEX: Some clubs do provide condoms. It's always a good idea to bring your own as well. Safe sex is a personal choice and responsibility. We take no responsibility for the safety and health of any persons who engage in sexual activities with others. Play at your own risk. Obviously, this is a subject that should be addressed with any potential sexual partners prior to the sexual activity.

* RESPECT OTHERS: Your Mama taught you The Golden Rule. Use it. Everyone at our events is an adult individual worthy of respect--a lady or a gentleman. Any member who is aggressive, abusive, or disrespectful to others will be removed.

* NO DRAMA: Everyone has tension, pressure and drama in their everyday lives. Leave that crap at the door! Couples or singles who can't get along, or who disrupt our festive atmosphere are not welcome. This is a party. We will make sure it is fun!

SPECIAL ADVICE FOR COUPLES:

* COMMUNICATE IN ADVANCE! : This is critical to all couples in the lifestyle, especially our newer folks. Discuss scenarios with your spouse PRIOR TO our parties! Decide and agree upon your personal limitations. If there are certain sexual activities in which you do not wish to see your partner engage, don't wait until his penis is in someone elses mouth! Discuss it ahead of time, come to a consensus, and you will avoid uncomfortable moments and unwanted drama!

SPECIAL ADVICE FOR SINGLE MALES:

* HOW TO SUCCEED AT OUR PARTIES! : We are one of the few lifestyle groups that does allow single males to participate in many, but not all, of our events. We have discovered that the vast majority of you guys is respectful, considerate, and is able to participate smoothly, adding another dimension of fun and enjoyment for many of our couples and single ladies. You must remember, however, that you have a special responsibility to be on your best behavior at all times. Couples are the backbone of the swinging lifestyle. There are relatively few single ladies in the lifestyle, so without all our sexy couples, there would be way too few women! We value and treasure our ladies, whether part of a couple, or single. Treat them in that high regard, and you will fit-in with our crowd.

* HOW TO APPROACH COUPLES: Always respect and acknowlege the fact that they are a couple! Never start hitting on a lady while ignoring her husband. How would you feel if the roles were reversed? Approach BOTH of them. Talk with BOTH of them. Gain the respect and confidence of the two of them, and you just might have a wonderful experience. Piss off either of them, and you have no chance!

* DRESS FOR SUCCESS: Always go the extra mile to set yourself apart. Your clothes, hygiene, friendliness, personality, respectfulness, and attitude should be exceptional. These attributes are far more important than your good looks or the size of your cock! If you disagree with this, we don't want you at our parties. Our ladies appreciate gentleman...and we demand it.

SPECIAL ADVICE FOR OBSERVING BDSM SCENES:

Some, not all, of our parties are in venues that include facilities and equipment for BDSM (dungeon) play. While there is a complex and detailed protocol for those deeply involved in such play, all you need to know as an observer is two things: 1) Don't touch without permission (this universal rule always applies!) and 2) Save your questions and comments for the participants until after the scene (play) is complete, so as to not interrupt the scene. It is totally OK to watch and observe. Just don't crowd the participants (keep a respectful distance) and try not to interrupt them when they are "busy". When the scene is completed, the Dominant partner will usually be happy to answer questions, and may even invite you to participate if you have an interest!

Whew! That's a lot of frickin' rules! Perhaps, but important ones. Because we make great efforts to educate our members in proper lifestyle etiquette, we have very few issues. Therefore, our parties are the sexiest, the most fun, and the safest in town! If you have any other questions regarding such issues, feel free to email us. We will return your email promptly....because we are polite ;-)

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